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School Assemblies

Wow just got back from an 18 day tour. It was awesome seeing those little kiddo’s eyes light up! I love my job. I get to be with my best friend and awaken peoples Hearts to their true potential and it’s always great when you get the teachers coming up to you after the program and say wow I’ve never… >> Continue reading: School Assemblies

A Culture of Bullying: Digging a Little Deeper

We have spent quite a bit of time this month researching and blogging about bullying. We have come to the conclusion that as a culture if we all dig a little deeper into our own lives, we could lessen the problem of bullying greatly.

Children live what they are taught. What is it about our culture that is creating an atmosphere of bullying and emotional and… >> Continue reading: A Culture of Bullying: Digging a Little Deeper

Physical Effects of Bullying

When we’re conducting staff development programs or parent programs at schools, one point that we stress is:

Bullying is not a right of passage, and should not be blown off as a “boys will be boys” or “kids will be kids” situation. Bullying is not ok, and chronic bullying can have serious short-term and long-term physical and emotional affects including:

Skin disorders, such as acne in

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Targets of Bullying

In our Native culture, we teach our children that diversity is to be honored and revered. Just as there are no two stars exactly alike in the universe, there are no two children exactly alike on Earth. It is so important to honor and respect each others’ differences.

We have found in our public and private elementary, middle, and high schools that diversity is something that… >> Continue reading: Targets of Bullying

Bullying and Native American Children on Reservations

Several times a year we return to Robert’s homeland in Mt. Pleasant, Michigan. Besides Mom, we still have many aunts, uncles, and cousins living on the rez. We also travel to many other nations throughout Indian Country, and we would be remise to talk about bullying without taking the time to recognize the special issues faced by Native children who live on reservations across this great nation.

On… >> Continue reading: Bullying and Native American Children on Reservations

How to Talk to a Child who is Being a Bully

When confronted with evidence of being a bully, your child or student may respond “I wasn’t being a bully, we were having a fight.” When faced with this justification, here are some questions you may ask your child to elicit a discussion of what it means to be a bully. We believe that in this situation yelling at your… >> Continue reading: How to Talk to a Child who is Being a Bully

Things Not to Say if Your Child is Being Bullied

If your child is being bullied, your first instinct may be to make light of it, in order to help your child or student feel better. Do not do this. The most important thing you can do is listen, until you have the whole story – or as much of the story as you are going to get. After listening, you and your child can decide together on an appropriate course of action. … >> Continue reading: Things Not to Say if Your Child is Being Bullied

Workplace Bullying

Adults, please be aware that children are not the only bullying predators and victims – not by half. As we’ve stated previously in our blogs, bullying is a learned behavior. Children are learning to be bullies from somebody.

Click here for an extremely informative document from the State of Washington Department of Labor and Industries about workplace bullying, the differences between harassment and bullying, and… >> Continue reading: Workplace Bullying

Steps for Taking Care of Bullying

Last night we did a parent program for Holy Trinity Catholic School in Lenexa, Kansas. The school asked us ahead of time to specifically focus on bullying. Throughout the evening we felt the heartfelt concern of the gathered parents, teachers, and community. From a personal standpoint, our children are grown, but as grandparents of seven, how can we help them stop bullying?

The most important thing we can do, is to

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A Quick Response Plan to Bullying

Listen to your child.

Offer your help.

Validate your child by acknowledging their feelings.

Embrace your child with your help, and with your arms.

Gakina-awiiya (We Are All Related),

Chief Robert and Terri Lynn TallTree
www.thetalltrees.com

“Teach us love, compassion and honor…that we may heal the Earth, and heal each other.” - Ojibwe prayer

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